Monday, July 23, 2018

Hiking in La Quinta



Hiking is Fantastic

Okay, so Hiking.

When I think about hiking this is what comes to mind: Trying to balance with my pants around my ankles,  peeing on my legs as I squat behind a stickery bush that pokes me in the butt while an ant bites my ankle.  Or is that camping?  Hm, no its both.  Hiking was synonymous with Camping for me.  I didn't do either one because you have to pee outside.

I started to explore hiking in the desert a few years ago. I did this mainly because my cool friends did "The Bump and Grind" and raved about its "workout" quality. A few years later "The Cross" became a cool hike; I tried that one too.


Hiking is Fun


It turns out that hiking is pretty fun. 


Just remember to pee before you go.

We have now started doing family hikes.  They are awesome!  Strength and cardio for the me and the kids as well as a deeper appreciation for the desert where we live?!  I couldn't ask for a better family outing.

As we were in the midst of our first hike with the kiddos I lost the trail.  I can't lie; it made me mad.  I was thinking "Great.  I'm out in the desert with three little kids, were going to have to climb ROCKS now to get back to the car AND there are a TON of Stickery Bushes!!!

A moment, and a pause and deep breath later I saw it.  That happened a few more times.  At the point when I was just LOST I looked up & saw on my horizon a stack of rocks.  I looked down from that point and saw the path again.



What are those stacked rocks?  Why are they there?  Who did that?

ACTUALLY, I remembered once seeing a man at the beach balancing rocks for tips.  His rock stacks looked similar to these.  I thought to myself, "Must be a bunch of pot smoking hippies trekking around up here.  Well, I AM hiking the La Quinta Cove..."

Yet

A still, small voice spoke to me in the rhetorical and inherent answer.  "Lesley, someone stacked those stones there because the trail is hard to see here.  They are leaving a sign for following travelers of this path.  They are there so you can find your way, so you don't get lost."  

At that moment it struck me rather deep.  The stacks are very unique, very human, the word I was searching for was Primal.  I began to wonder how many people had traveled on this trail.  Were they old?  How long has this trail even been here?!  What if Indians traveled this trail in a migration?



I started to imagine Indians leaving trail markers for their tribes, or Lewis and Clark, or Hansel and Gretel.  I thought about bees and their pheromones and dances and ants and how they all follow a trail.  Each one that comes before leaves something behind for the next... to show them the way to follow the path.

It so intrigued me, that the moment I got home from the hike I Googled "rock stacks." It turns out that I am not the only person to find this fascinating or even think these thoughts. Shoot, maybe I'm the only student that didn't learn this in Ancient History in High School... or College... 



Here is an interesting excerpt from an article I found on-line called,


Stacking stones is an old business. Trail builders in the Northeast picked up the tradition from ancient cultures. The Scots may be best known for it; after all, the word cairn originates from a Gaelic term for “heap of stones.” But the rather prosaic definition does little justice to a tradition stretching back millennia and across continents. The early Norse used stones as precursors to lighthouses, marking important navigational sites in the maze-like Norwegian fjords. Vikings blazed routes across Iceland with varda (Icelandic for cairn) more than a thousand years ago. Cairns cross deserts on three continents and dot the Tibetan Plateau, the Mongolian steppe, and the Inca Road system of the Andes. Erected for navigation, spiritual offering, or as monuments of remembrance, heaps of stone occur in just about every treeless landscape in which one finds loose rock.


When European explorers began plying the arctic coast, they concealed messages (often their last) describing their discoveries in prominent cairns. They also dismantled many indigenous cairns thinking a comrade had hidden a message within.


Across the North American Arctic, Inuit people construct stone monuments called Inuksuk. Meaning “to act in the capacity of a human,” an inuksuk, like a cairn, can relay a variety of messages: memorial, resource site, or safe passage. The 2010 Vancouver Olympic logo portrayed an innunguaq—an inuksuk with a human-like form.


By Michael Gaige AMC Outdoors, March/April 2013

                                   Stacked rocks. 


      Rock Balancing. 


                          Carin. 


Carin.

A cairn is a man-made pile (or stack) of stones. The word cairn comes from the Scottish Gaelic: càrn (plural càirn. Cairns are found all over the world in uplands, on moorland, on mountaintops, near waterways and on sea cliffs, and also in barren desert and tundra areas. They vary in size from small stone markers to entire artificial hills, and in complexity from loose, conical rock piles to delicately balanced sculptures and elaborate feats of megalithic engineering. Cairns may be painted or otherwise decorated, e.g. for increased visibility or for religious reasons.
In modern times, cairns are often erected as landmarks, a use they have had since ancient times. Since prehistory, they have also been built as sepulchral monuments, or used for defensive, hunting, ceremonial, astronomical and other purposes...
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cairn


Hiking is Fabulous


So here I am in the desert experiencing this epiphany and I suddenly notice that my kids have left the trail and scaled a small peak. Great. My little Mountain Goats are way up there. I was worried they were going to initiate an avalanche.

 

Suddenly Taylor yells out "ECHO." In silence we all stared at her. Then we heard her voice again "echoo, echoo, echo. Cool. I mean really cool. It gave me chills to see that my kids were experiencing something so natural.


 

We sat there in the supreme stillness and silence with the ants, stickery bushes, and the cairn.



 


Listen to the still small voice, if the path is unclear take a deep breath and look around for help.  It is there if only you seek it and move in that direction.  If you find yourself in uncharted territory, appreciate the beauty that you have discovered; take something away and leave something behind for whomever may be there in the future.


Saturday, October 23, 2010

Harvest!

  some of my fondest memories as a child consist of harvesting summer and fall crops.  I was lucky enough to grow up in a family that enjoyed gardening & growing our own food. If it even resembled a garden, I called it a 'patch.'  Strawberries were my favorite.  I even had a little patch of my very own! 

Me, 1980, in a Corn Patch
Adult life for me and my family is very different.  We live in a community of landscaped,  tract homes.  We do have a few citrus trees & a very productive apricot tree, but it doesn't really compare to the luxury of land and soil to grow crops. Sometimes I miss getting dirty planting & excited about blossoms and produce, talking about bees and ladybugs, and rainfall.  There are moments when I would give it all up for a 'patch' for my own children.

Luckily, California is known for its bountiful produce and here are a TON of U-Pick farms around, good ones, if you know where to find them. 
Here are some links to some U-Pick farms and attractions that are TOTALLY worth the effort.

Redlands/Pumpkins: http://www.liveoakcanyon.com/loc/pumpkins/PumpkinTours.htm

Toms Farms/Pumpkins:  http://www.westcoastfestivals.com/Harvest_Festival.html

Oak Glen/Apples & Berries:  http://www.oakglen.net/farms.shtml, http://www.rileysfarm.com/

Cherry Valley/Cherries: http://www.cherryacres.net/history.htm

Temecula/Berries:  http://www.temeculaberryco.com/U-Pick_Tips.php

Santa Barbara/Blueberries: http://restorationoaksranch.com/
 



Thursday, October 21, 2010

Roundup of U-Pick-'em Pumpkin Patches




909-795-8733


Families can't miss this pumpkin patch off the 10 freeway, just look for the giant inflatable pumpkin. The farm has pumpkins in the patch for picking, or hundreds of shapes and sizes already picked and grouped according to size.


 Also look for arts and crafts, a corn maze, bounce houses, a petting zoo and more.






10133 Ward Way, Mentone
9 a.m.-6 p.m. daily
909-794-7653

Greenspot has hayrides, train rides, a petting zoo, a hay maze, a jump house and plenty of pumpkins. The farm will also have haunted hayrides for the big kids through the 31st. Check the website for dates and pricing information.


39925 Calle Contento, Temecula
9 a.m.-8 p.m. daily
951-695-1115

In addition to the many varieties of squash, gourds, pumpkins and corn stalks, Peltzer Farms has pony rides, a petting zoo, pig races, a corn maze and more.

Riley's Farm & Orchard


12261 S. Oak Glen Road, Oak Glen
10 a.m.-5 p.m. Monday-Saturday
909-797-7534
www.rileysfarm.com


Riley's has pumpkins, raspberries, flowers, pears, strawberries and apples ripe for the picking. The farm also has a variety of daily activities for families such as archery, candle dipping, pie baking and more. Check the website for hours and pricing details.


Reach Jennifer Dean at 951-368-9336, jdean@PE.com or http://blogs.inlandsocal.com/moms.

Tuesday, October 19, 2010

Farm Fresh!



Farmers Markets!  Who doesn't love farm fresh produce?  Check out local California farmers markets!  Fun for the family!  Support your local Farmers & consume farm fresh!
 
 


La Quinta Farmers Market

The market in La Quinta will be open every Sunday from 8:00 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. at Old Town La Quinta. Vendors offering fresh vegetables and fruit (no spray and organic), cut flowers, honey, eggs, nuts, herbs, bread, cheese and plants. The new market day is an expansion of the popular weekly event held in Palm Springs each Saturday.
http://www.americantowns.com/ca/laquinta/events/certified-farmers-market-at-old-town-la-quinta-2010-03-14







Redlands Market Night


Thursdays - 6:00 to 9:00 PM. (except Holidays, Thanksgiving, and the week between Christmas and the New Year) Established in 1988, Redlands Market Night has established itself as one of the most successful certified farmers markets in Southern California! Vendors vie to participate in the event that has attracted thousands of weekly visitors since its inception. Visitors are welcomed into an inviting atmosphere complete with lighted trees, brick sidewalks, historic buildings, and great musical entertainment. Crowds are pleasantly surrounded by over 150 food and merchandise booths, not to mention the downtown shopkeepers, every Thursday night.



 
 
Santa Barbara Farmers Market
 
 
 The Santa Barbara Certified Farmers Market Association is a non-profit mutual benefit corporation that was founded in 1983 to provide California farmers with direct access at landmark locations to market their agricultural products directly to the local community. Our Association of 130 grower members, owned and operated by the members and its board of directors, is committed to helping promote local family farmers, and protecting the environment by sustaining and restoring surrounding greenbelt areas. The SBCFMA continues working diligently to bring the freshest and most nutritious produce our rich local agricultural land has to offer for you and your families.




The markets serve to strengthen the local communities ties and will help to provide weekly events at no cost while enhancing our community's quality of life. Each week the farmers in the marketplace display a colorful bounty of agricultural products grown right in our backyard. Seasonal diversity is available year round rain or shine. Music and entertainment enliven the markets while creating a positive ambiance. Come. Shop. Socialize. Certified - the only way to buy!

http://www.sbfarmersmarket.org/index.php

Thursday, October 7, 2010

Indian Summer

Indian Summer has no definition in the desert. It is hot here until it is cold. Then it is glorious.  We are looking forward to getting some fun family time in on our bikes and bike trailers.

It is only 8 miles round trip to our Preschool and home. It takes only 30-45 minutes to complete. We plan on saving some gasoline, burning some calories & enjoying the great outdoors this fall.


Thankfully it is finally cooling off. I was able to bike over to the girls' preschool today and pick them up on my awesome bike with a trailer and baby seat. It is super fun to ride home with them in the back. We talk about the humming birds, butterflies and flowers. We note the different scents we smell: fresh cut grass, bread from the bakery, pizza from the pizza place, and simply the dry desert smell.


It is so great to find an activity for the whole family that is physical, economical, enjoyable, and educational. I highly recommend finding a way to walk, jog or ride for a purpose. To & from school, the corner market, park, or coffee shop.

Saturday, October 2, 2010

Wellness Wheel


Dimensions of Health & Wellness
 Revisiting this chart periodically is so valuable to me.  I helps me to put things into perspective, and try to improve areas of my life that I mindlessly neglect, which is so easy to do when caring for 3  young children and a home.  Living well is about balance and wholeness.
Each of the "slices" actually consists of two parts.  I like to think of them as the "crust" and the "filling."  The foundation, or the crust, is Health, and Wellness is the goodness inside.
  • Emotional health/Wellness: Dealing & coping with daily circumstances with personal feelings that are positive, optimistic and constructive.  Free from emotional illness & possess emotional wellness
  • Intellectual Health/Wellness: Ability to learn and use information to enhance quality of daily living and optimal functioning.Free from illnesses that invade the brain and affect learning & possesses Intellectual Wellness.
  • Physical Health/Wellness: Fit vs. Unfit. Ability to meet the demands of the days work and use free time effectively. Good Physical Fitness & Motor Skills. Free from illnesses that affect physiological systems of the body
  • Social Health/Wellness:  Involved as opposed to lonely.  Ability to interact with others and establish meaningful relationships that are beneficial for all people involved in the interaction Free from illnesses & conditions that limit social interaction such as antisocial tendencies.
  • Spiritual Health/Wellness:  Fulfilled vs. Unfulfilled.  Establishment of a values system and act on the system of beliefs, as well as carry out meaningful life time goals.

 
The Blue Day Book



The Blue Day Book is a great little book to have around the house.  It has helped me talk with my kids about thinking positive thoughts, and trying to be happy even when things aren't going the way I planned.  It consists of wonderful photos of animals and the frustrating situations that they get themselves into.  My sister-in-law sent it to my husband when he was having a bad week.  So far, I have used it way more than he has.



La Quinta Library
 Staying at home to care for my children has posed a challenge to maintain a healthy intellectual balance.  Sesame Street & Teletubbies just don't cut it, and I seriously no longer have time to read the paper, watch the news, or pick up a magazine or book.  When I really start to feel the need to feed my knowledge & intelligence I head to the library.  I check out literature that I have read and love (Fountain Head, Moby Dick) or go for something that I haven't read but would love to try (Jane Eyre).  Buying books and book clubs aren't in my budget & while I would LOVE to read the hot new titles.  They all come to the library eventually.



Lesley Valentine
February 14, 2010
Palm Springs 1/2 Marathon
 Physical Health is HUGE to me.  I hit the gym almost every week day 1-2 hours.  On off days I find a minimum of 30 minutes of activity for myself around the house, outside, or on the town with the family.  I discovered at a young age that the endorphins that are produced from physical activity help me to function better and be happier, and the physical benefits are an absolute plus.  I often refer to an awesome website, exrx.net , for tips and up to date information.

Being social is a whole new world these days.  Face to face interaction has sort of gone the way of Facebook.  We just don't do it.  Why should we?  We have the ability to communicate electronically at our fingertips every day.  Waiting for the right time just isn't an issue anymore.  I found that it was something I needed to re-learn once I stopped working.  Co-workers & socializing at work are something that goes hand in hand for me.  When my job began at home, and only at home, I had the difficult task of figuring out how to socialize.  OMG, I had to make friends.  I had never set out with that purpose in my LIFE!  The scariest thing ever for me, but I had great success with sites like meetup.com. 

Being raised in a very religious family, I have always had a sense of spirituality.  Finally I had the time and the need to fulfill it!  In the name of setting a good example for my children & raising them with values I set out on the task of finding a good church.  I searched small, intimate congregations near and far with no luck.  None seemed to be a good fit for our family.  FINALLY my husband suggested Southwest Community Church and we attended. The sheer size of the church always scared me a bit, but since he wanted to go too I felt more comfortable.   I was sold after 3 successful services.  It is a great fit for our family.

Though some days are blue no matter how hard you try, it doesn't mean every day has to be!  Try to make every day exciting, delicious, adventurous and enlightening.  Enjoy every moment & savor the "last taste" (what I refer to as the last bite of a delicious dessert or dish).  Soon enough you will be putting a fabulous topping on the dish that is your life.